The news is unsettling. I don’t even bother to read the reports because the headlines say it all. Of course there are things that parents should watch out for; however, social media plays a role like never before. How do you influence your child more than the internet?
Continue reading to understand the effects of parental guidance and childhood behavior.
Influence your child to do good things
There are many reasons a parent will want to influence their child to do good things. Not only for the child’s safety but also for their mental well-being. We have to take proactive steps to encourage our children to build their integrity.
We’re dealing with something much different…
The cliques within the digital world can’t physically touch our children. Yet, there are bullies all the same. To me, having an online altercation is just as hurtful, sometimes even more so.
When we fought as children (in the real world), we healed our wounds and the fight was over. But in the digital sense, the attacks are on our characters. It’s not easy to heal something like that.
..mixed together with an undeveloped mind.
So now, add the fact that our children don’t even have a grand sense of the stuff they see before them. An undeveloped mind mixed with the confusion of the digital world is enough to create havoc on a child’s sense of being.
It’s time to step up. It’s time to step in. Learn how to have more influence on your child more than the internet.
How to protect your child from bad influences:
These easy to understand methods will provide the building blocks for stronger influence in your child’s life.
1. Limit screen time
Of course, it’s obvious, but let’s get it out of the way. Limiting screen time essentially limits access to foreign information. While you cannot control EVERYTHING your child sees throughout their day, the main content should come from home.
2. Allow outlets for energy, curiosity, and creativity
It’s quite possible that children are attracted to online sources, such as YouTube, because of their natural curiosity to learn. In the real world, they can only see what you show them. Online, they can see much more.
We all know, the internet isn’t always good for children.
3. Bond according to their quirks
The main desire in life is to feel accepted. Children are especially prone. Knowing what makes your child unique will give you the opportunity to create
For instance, my middle child loves to sing. She’s normally pretty shy, but in the comfort of her own home, we let her whale. She expresses so much joy by having us watch hold concerts, in person, in real life.
We show our children our presence so they do not seek it from the internet. Their specialness, and God-given traits are amplified at home.
4. Balance kindness and discipline
It’s easy to get carried away in the rules of discipline. Remember to balance it out with kindness. Before you address something that your child needs improvement on, take a deep breath.
Does it need attention now?
Are they doing the unwanted behavior with intention?
Answering those simple questions will put things into perspective.
5. Show them how important they are
Don’t be afraid to tell your child how much you love them. Explain how they are important and what they do matters. Everyone has their special piece within the family pie, help your child to understand that.
Parental influence on a child’s behavior
Parents, you have the ability to influence your child in the most direct manner. Using grace and patience, we can lead our children to their full potential. I wish you all the best in your household. Leave me